About Us

My name is Heather and I have been the help meet to my wonderful husband, Len, for 22 years. Our children are Hope (19), Lenny (15), Lily (11), Wren (Born to heaven, 10/02), Mary (Born to heaven, 9/03), Lucy (Born to heaven, Early '04), and Peter (6). Six doggies round out our happy brood.

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Do I Treat My Family as Lovingly and Kindly as I Would a Stranger on the Street?

I just read a beautiful post by Cay Gibson over at Cajun Cottage Under the Oaks.  I think it is particularly appropriate during this Christmas season when I can feel squeezed and the “victims” of those stressed feelings are those that I love the most on God’s green earth – my husband and children.  Cay [...]

Frumpiness and Forgetfulness

Thinking I wasn’t going out today except to drop my daughter at her part-time job, I opted for wool socks and slippers this morning.  It was not until I was entering the front door of our local library that I realized that I had neglected to change out of my favorite footwear.  And wouldn’t you [...]

The Downsides of Being a Homeschooling Mother with a Masters in Education

Often times when I meet someone and they find out that we home-school, I get the inevitable question: “Well are you a teacher?”  I tell them “yes”, but usually explain that a teaching degree is not a necessity in this home-school journey.  However, in spite of my explanation, it is plain to see that they [...]

Shepherd Me, O Lord

“Shepherd me, O Lord, beyond my wants, beyond my fears, from death into life.”

Thus begins one of my favorite hymns at my parish.  And the line “beyond my wants” is particularly striking for me.  I think that the lyricist was probably referring to “wants” as we might use the term in the phrase “a person in [...]

The “Executive” Mother

I took this quiz about my “Mothering Style” over at MotheringStyles and thought it pegged me pretty well. Yes, I am a CONTROL FREAK!!!

HT: Leonie

Your type is: entj —The “Executive” Mother

“My mind is always going. How can I fine-tune the system to everyone’s advantage?”

Competent and confident in a management role, [...]

Perhaps it is time… (a.k.a. Gluttony is an ugly word)

Luke 9:57-62:

As Jesus and his disciples were proceeding
on their journey, someone said to him,
“I will follow you wherever you go.”
Jesus answered him,
“Foxes have dens and birds of the sky have nests,
but the Son of Man has nowhere to rest his head.”
And to another he said, “Follow me.”
But he replied, [...]

I missed the point…

Well I missed the point again.  I must say that for some of the season of Advent, I kept my eyes on the point (the birth of Christ).  I celebrated Advent with my children more deeply than ever before although there were times that I allowed the hustle and bustle of commitments to divert my [...]

My Favorite Day of the Month

In our parish the first Friday of the month is the Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. Having been raised as a Presbyterian, I was raised to believe that communion was just a symbol of the body and blood of Jesus. When I became a Catholic over 8 years ago, I basically continued in that [...]